Where for art thou?
Why is it that we sit around waiting for Ms / Mr. “Right” to come along? Whenever we go out, we go out expecting to find our one true love. When we are approach by people that may be interested in us we pick them apart. We say things like; her hair’s too short, he has no top lip, she is too tall, his feet are too small…
If we were to just stop picking people apart and get to know people for who they are before we pass judgment I can assure you that you will find your Romeo or Juliet. They may not come in the package that you were expecting, but true love never does.
I totally agree with this observation. Most likely a victim of this bias activity more times than not; I get comments lots of times because I may not look like a model or beauty queen, but my heart is pure and am a very creative, talented, funny and kind person. I will not conform and become someone I'm not just to pease another. Most wouldn't take the time to get to know me. I look at it as their loss because I don't judge people by appearance. I like to know weather they are compatible and have somewhat the same goals in mind. I am more spiritual and look for the spiritual and or vibrational connection.
When I feel that person I will know it is the right one. In order to feel that, I must take time and vibe with them. I also know that if I were looking for that woman; She will also be looking for me.
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WHAT'S TRUE LOVE? IF YOU MUST KNOW JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY TRUE LOVE. THATS THE ONLY LOVE I KNOW IT'S BEEN SO LONG SINCE A MAN REALLY LOOKED AT ME. THEY DON'T SPEAK, NOBODY WANTS TO SIT DOWN AND TALK TO BLACK WOMEN ANYMORE. IT'S LIKE WE ARE TABOO!
I'M SORRY MAYBE I SHOULD NOT SAY THAT BUT I AM BEING TRUE. THESE MEN ARE LOOKING AT GIRLS, YOUNGER THAN TWENTY. SO IF U ARE MY AGE GOOD LUCK.
YOU GOT TO GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO GET A DATE OTHER RACES ARE SCARED TO TALK TO YOU, SO WE ARE SCREWED.
GOD HELP US ALL.
MAYBE I GOT OFF THE PATH, HEY....
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